It often seems that our lives are just one disruption after another. Given all the personal and professional commitments, it can be hard to stay focused and engaged.
I’d like to share a personal example. Earlier this month, I was on a flight and trying to get some work done on my laptop. However, as I sat in my aisle seat, the woman in the middle seat took off her sandals and put her bare feet up on the seat. She then placed one foot under her leg so that it came in contact with my leg. I did give the death stare, which caused her to pull away thankfully. She then proceeded to stick her bare foot into the seat pocket and ... I can’t go on. Really, what possesses people to behave like this? I know many of you have seen this behavior and have stories far worse. Point being, this behavior distracted me continuously for my flight. I kept one eye on this crazy situation unfolding for the duration.
We have nice distractions and disruptions as well. Some even create an environment that increases our engagement and productivity. I was doing a show up in the beautiful Green Mountains of Vermont this month and had lots of work to do, as well as three conference calls. I found a great spot outdoors to plug in the laptop, have a bit of privacy and provide an atmosphere conducive to thought. That was until the family with toddlers decided to sit down next to me even though there were 14 other tables available on this 1,000 sq. ft. patio. C’mon now!
Sometimes we are our own worst enemies and we don’t always know what’s best. Do we invite distractions? We all multitask; most of us travel, we all have family commitments of one kind or another whether it’s children, parents, etc. A lot of us work in offices and have staff and co-workers that we interact with daily.
And what about our industry involvement? For me, it’s one of the most important aspects of my career. Honestly, I can’t imagine not being involve. Yes, it takes time away from other things but it is such a rewarding experience and I have learned so much from the people I’ve encountered and about myself. I make time for it. I believe that’s what we do. We make time for what’s important, but what if it’s all important?
Please consider volunteering within the CMP community. It’s a distraction worth every moment.
Matthew J. DiSalvo, CMP, Vice President Sales and Marketing, Capital Convention ContractorsEvents Industry Council