Working With Pro Bono Clients in Financial Stress
By Cynthia Meyer, CFA®, CFP®, ChFC®
“A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.” - Lao Tzu
In the time it takes you to watch a sitcom, you could change someone’s financial trajectory.
Pro bono financial planning is effective. That’s why the CFP Board adopted a resolution in 2023 encouraging all CFP® professionals to participate in pro bono financial planning activities.
If you are committed to add pro bono financial planning to your practice but aren’t sure how to be effective, I want to help you listen without judgment and coach for practical, achievable results.
Most pro-bono clients are in a different stage of financial wellness than the clients you serve in your business who are building financial security. Pro bono clients often lack financial resilience and experience unmanageable levels of financial stress. They are living paycheck to paycheck, carry high-interest credit card debt, and lack emergency savings:
According to 2023 research from workplace financial wellness firm Financial Finesse, financial stress cuts across all income and education levels. That makes sense, given that nearly four in five Americans are living paycheck to paycheck. In past research, unmanageable financial stress was found to be highest for single moms and younger employees, including Black and Hispanic employees, and renters.
When someone is experiencing a financially stressful situation, keep your engagement brief and focused on one thing.
As financial planners, we may see our clients for long meetings to discuss multiple topics. However, for the pro bono client experiencing financial overwhelm, a long conversation about many stressful topics will just lead to more stress.
Consider keeping your engagement to 20–30 minutes. It may take some practice to keep them that short but keep working on this. It’s usually better to meet a pro bono client a few times for shorter meetings than one long meeting.
When working with people in financial distress, your primary role as a pro bono planner is to help the overwhelmed client start taking action to stabilize cash management and budgeting, or to navigate an urgent issue like an eviction or wage garnishment.
The first step is to listen without judgment to identify the neutral facts. In the life coaching world, that is called “holding space.”
Holding space means:
Of course, it’s okay to be kind to other people. Your pro bono client may be in pain, and you may think their pain is a reasonable response to their circumstances. However, to move people toward action, help your client discover a sense of agency over the problem by describing it in a neutral manner.
Financial stress doesn’t typically resolve itself without change. Most of the time, your goal is to help the client sort through some reasonable options and identify one to three micro-actions that will move them forward.
I like to call those micro-actions “bite-sized” actions:
You can certainly offer suggestions about next actions. I like to ask pro bono clients what one small thing they can do this week to help with (the situation).
The goal of coaching is to help pro bono clients take action to improve their lives. The coaching paradigm assumes each pro bono client has the resources within them to make good decisions that are best for their life and navigate challenges.
You are here to guide them, not tell them what to do.
To coach effectively, you must meet the pro bono client where they are. You are helping them launch and build financial resilience. That means coaching them to take action on cash flow management, debt management, using their employee benefits, and building emergency savings.
You don’t start from where you are—financially secure or on a journey to financial security—by giving advice about how to become financially secure. That could sound condescending or tone deaf to the pro bono client in financial distress.
The pro bono client doesn’t need traditional “advice” from you. The pro bono client does need you to:
During times of extreme financial stress, such as a job loss, foreclosure, or natural disaster, focus on survival basics:
Food – Does the client need a referral to a local food bank or government food assistance?
Shelter – Does the client need housing counseling, emergency relocation, or short-term shelter? Does the client need to prioritize paying their mortgage and utilities before they pay other bills, such as credit cards or student loans?
Transportation – Can the client get to work? Can their kids get to school? Does the client need to prioritize paying for their car before paying other bills, such as credit cards or student loans?
Healthcare – Does the client need health insurance? What do they need to do to maintain current coverage? Do income changes make them eligible for reduced cost of coverage or Medicaid?
If a pro bono client is living paycheck to paycheck, facing a loss of income, or dealing with unexpected expenses, look first to taking action on their cash management plan:
Gather bills and expenses – What is everything they owe, and everything they spend right now? Many people get stuck in this stage (including our own more financially secure clients). Create space and structure for your pro bono client to look objectively at their obligations and spending.
Create a simple budget or spending plan – Get the data in a spreadsheet or in a budget/tracking app. If your pro bono client is stuck or feels overwhelmed by the technology, you can do it with them. Often just the act of seeing the math of the situation can prompt people to make decisions about next steps.
Triage what’s most important – Can any expenses be downsized, reduced, deleted, or delayed? Remind your pro bono client to focus on survival essentials first.
Brainstorm ways to earn extra money – Ask your pro bono client to make a list of all the ways they can think of to earn extra money. Are they able to take a second job or start a side hustle? Sell something they own?
Contact creditors – Could the pro bono client benefit from credit counseling? A rent or mortgage modification? Student loan forbearance? Pick one creditor at a time for focus. Encourage your client to be proactive, keep excellent notes, and get everything in writing.
If you spend a lot of time coaching pro bono clients, you will run into clients who are mired in a cycle of very high-interest debt and shady debt or tax counseling businesses such as:
While you can coach these clients on cash management and debt resolution, they may need extra legal or tax help. Refer to the National Foundation for Credit Counseling (NFCC.org), local legal aid, and pro bono tax help.
Not sure where to start as a volunteer? As a NAPFA member, consider participating in one of the NAPFA Foundation’s supported programs:
You may also want to:
Cynthia Meyer is a financial mentor, real estate investor, blogger, founder of Real Life Planning, and co-founder of the Real Estate Financial Coach Course. She is a pro bono financial coach.
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