Advice for Job Seekers on "What Not to Say In An Interview"
- "Sure" - If the
interviewer asks if you have done a certain job duty and your answer is
"Sure" then my next question is, "and...?" You
need to give examples and elaborate during the interview. Most
questions asked in an interview should not be "yes" or "no." Even a
"can you start tomorrow" should elicit an "Absolutely, I
would love to be a part of this team and I could start right now!" It
shows more interest and confidence.
- "Kinda" - Not only is
this not a word, it is already putting the interviewer in a skeptical
place. If you have done something, say yes and use examples.
Or if you haven't, detail how you have not yet had the opportunity
to do that specific task but would love to learn and have had similar experience
that will be an asset to that company.
- Any curse word - I know this is a given, but you would be surprised to
know that once in a while, someone swears in an interview. Even in
the context of a story it risks you coming off as crass, unprofessional or
just not realizing that you are in a professional interview for a position
you really want.
- "Umm" - I know it is
hard to avoid the filler words, but practice, practice, practice ... and
then be quiet. Practice interviews with your friends, mentors,
family, etc. and then if you are in the interview and need a moment to
think — just say so or be quiet and then respond. Saying "umm" too
much could make someone picture you twirling your hair, chomping bubblegum
and asking, "wait, what is this interview for again?" You
want every question to be an opportunity to highlight why you are
confident that you are the best candidate for the job even if on paper you
might look too inexperienced.
- "Hate" - Maybe you did
not like a certain job or boss, but you should not hate them.
Moreover, you should not be airing your dirty laundry during an
interview. If you are bitter or speaking negatively about them, what
are you going to say about us? You might be mature, professional and
positive otherwise but if an interviewer hears the word "hate"
then they might not hear the rest.
- Age - Or marital status or any of the protected categories.
It does not hurt anything to offer it up but it does put the
interviewer in a precarious position where they cannot really comment on
what you have said and need to redirect back to questions regarding this
specific role and requirements.
The moral of the story? Think about what
the interviewer will hear when you say certain words. It is not about
what you intend, it is about what they hear and all you want them to hear is,
"you just found the best person for this opportunity."