Maybe it’s just me, but I always feel like the confluence of so many fall and winter holiday celebrations creates some kind of warp in the space-time continuum. One day it’s the middle of October, and then you blink. Rosh Hashanah, Yom Kippur, Halloween, Día de los Muertos, Navratri, Diwali, Thanksgiving, Día de la Virgen de Guadalupe, Hanukkah, Kwanzaa, Christmas and more have passed. It’s New Year’s Eve. Before we get swept away, can we pause? Wait… did you just roll your eyes at me? Okay, that’s fair. If 2020 feels like anything, it's one big pause. Was it really? In some ways, we’ve been working nonstop, tirelessly pivoting, responding, supporting, reacting, protesting, reading and watching (our screens, that is). What if we were all to take time this fall to actually pause?
If I’ve learned anything from the amazingly talented authors, leaders, teachers, coaches and speakers I get to work with, it's that creativity, innovation, attention and intention thrive in the pause.
The pandemic has fundamentally shifted the way we “see” just about everything: the 2020 Election, the way we design our homes and offices, how we shop for food, the future of education, pharmacy, healthcare, hospitality, the arts and even how the next generation might see themselves in the world. Techno-accelerations that blend our in-person and virtual lives are happening at break-neck speeds, unleashing brand new paradigms. As our conferences (not to mention workplaces) went virtual, members and customers found themselves shifting (on the same devices) seamlessly between our programming, their favorite Netflix show, and Hamilton on Disney+. The stimulating and unforgettable events we staged in the past (and will again, in some form) were already in a space where the memory – the experience itself – had become the product so worthy of FOMO. Please, stop benchmarking against last year’s show when expectations are hardly like a “conference” at all. I digress, but I know you hear me.
The 2019 world we’ve left behind is not the where to focus. Instead, why not hit pause before you find yourself singing "Auld Lang Syne" or kissing your sweetie while the ball drops. Let go of the pain, regret, and longing for the elusive “normal”. Instead, get to work making good decisions rooted in deliberate intention. Pause to see what really matters, and design relevant solutions for today and tomorrow using the superpower that is your 2020 vision.
Rhonda Payne, CAE
Rhonda Payne, CAE @my19cents is an association executive, learning leader and entrepreneur who has spent more than 25 years working with best-in-class trade and professional member service organizations as a visionary change agent. As the founder and CEO of the learning and performance agency, Flock Theory, and member of the NYSAE board of directors, she thrives in the spaces where education, technology, design, and people connect to make the knowledge of the few, the knowledge of the many.